Guiding men to embody their truth, strength, and sensitivity.

Intimacy Bodywork & Psychodynamic Coaching for Men who want more connection, clarity, and depth.

More about me & my work

WHAT I OFFER

1:1 Bodywork Session

  • My bodywork sessions are created for men who are ready to reconnect with their body and deepen their capacity to feel, receive, and relax into presence.

    Each session combines conscious touch, breath, and body awareness to release tension and awaken sensitivity. You are invited to slow down, feel more, and rediscover a sense of aliveness and safety in your body.

    Lingam massage can be included as part of the process, always optional and guided by consent and clarity. It’s never about performance or release, but about opening to what’s truly present in you.

    In this space, you may:
    • Let go of the constant need to perform, provide or ‘do’
    • Feel your body soften and open again
    • Release stored tension and emotional blocks
    • Experience deep relaxation and renewed sensitivity
    • Reconnect with your natural energy and aliveness

    Many men describe these sessions as a profound reset: physically, emotionally, and energetically.

    Includes a free 20-minute introductory call before your first session.

    Ready to book a session? Please fill in the contact form below and I’ll be in touch with you soon.

    About Lingam massage: Lingam massage is an optional part of the session that involves conscious, respectful touch of the genital area. It’s never goal-oriented or sexual, but a way to release tension, restore sensitivity, and reconnect with your natural life force. This part of the work is always approached with clear consent, presence, and integrity. Throughout the session, I remain fully clothed and am not touched, the focus is entirely on your process and experience.

  • Each session lasts 3 hours and offers a deep, spacious journey into your body, sensuality, and nervous system.
    Choose the option that fits the depth you’re seeking:

    1 Session — €350

    An introduction into the work. Release stored tension and experience a full physical reset.

    3 Sessions — €945 (10% discount)

    For deepening. More relaxation, more awareness, and the first layers of real transformation.

    6 Sessions — €1.680 (20% discount)

    For long-term change. Sustainable results, nervous system integration, and a deeper connection to your body and energy.

1:1 Coaching Session

  • My coaching sessions offer a space to bring clarity, understanding, and direction to what’s moving in your life right now. We work with what’s real, whether that’s challenges in intimacy, purpose, boundaries, or emotional expression.

    Together we explore the patterns that keep you stuck and reconnect you with your own truth and inner strength. Sessions may include dialogue, somatic awareness, and guided practices that help you integrate insights not only mentally, but also through the body.

    You can expect a grounded, honest space where you’re met as a whole human, not as a problem to be fixed.

    These sessions are for men who want to:
    • Understand themselves and their relationships more deeply
    • Develop emotional awareness and communication
    • Reconnect with purpose, clarity, and confidence
    • Integrate embodiment and awareness into daily life

    Coaching sessions can be booked individually or as part of a longer journey for deeper transformation and integration.

    Ready to book a session? Please fill in the contact form below and I’ll be in touch with you soon.

  • Each session lasts 1.5 hours and offers a grounded, insightful exploration of your inner world, patterns, emotions, and direction.
    Choose the option that fits the depth you’re seeking:

    1 Session — €130

    Clarity and perspective. Gain insight into your patterns, emotions, and current challenges.

    3 Sessions — €350 (10% discount)

    Deepening your awareness. Integrate small but meaningful shifts and create new internal space.

    6 Sessions — €660 (15% discount)

    Sustainable change. Greater clarity in your choices, emotional regulation, and long-term direction.

The Embodied Man

  • It’s for the man who no longer wants to understand his life from the mind, but to live it fully from the body and heart.

    This 3-month journey is for men who are ready to live and love from a deeper place of presence. It combines bodywork and psychodynamic coaching. Supporting both the physical release and the emotional integration that real transformation requires.

    True change unfolds in three stages, a full-circle process:

    1. Awareness. Gaining insight into what’s truly happening beneath the surface. Recognising patterns, understanding your emotions, and becoming conscious of how you relate to yourself and others.

    2. Release. Letting go of the old. The emotional residues and memories your body still holds. Through feeling and allowing, you clear what no longer belongs.

      May the flowers remind us why the rain was so necessary.

    3. Reprogramming. As you create more space within, new imprints can form. You begin to embody a different reality: grounded, alive, and connected to your truth.

    In our coaching sessions, we work with awareness and emotional understanding.
    In bodywork sessions, we go deeper into release and embodiment, anchoring the new way of being in your body.

    Each coaching session is followed by a written summary to support your reflection and integration.

    This journey brings you full circle. From understanding, through release, into embodiment. You’ll leave more grounded, clear, and connected to who you truly are.

    Limited to a small number of men at a time, to ensure personal depth and attention. 

    Includes a free 20-minute introductory call before your first session.

    Ready to book this journey? Please fill in the contact form below and I’ll be in touch with you soon.

  • A 3-month journey combining bodywork and psychodynamic coaching.
    Six sessions in total (3 bodywork + 3 coaching) designed to bring you into deeper presence, emotional clarity, and embodied masculinity.

    Total Program — €1.450

    Over the course of three months, you move through physical release, emotional integration, and mental clarity.
    A structured path for men who want depth, transformation, and a more grounded relationship with themselves.

    What you receive:

    • 3 Bodywork Sessions (3 hours each)
      Release tension, reconnect to your sensuality, and open the body as a gateway for transformation.

    • 3 Psychodynamic Coaching Sessions (1.5 hours each)
      Understand your patterns, shift limiting dynamics, and create clarity in how you show up in your life.

    • Ongoing support between sessions
      You can always reach out via WhatsApp for questions, reflections, or support. I’m available between sessions to help you integrate, stay grounded, and move through whatever arises.

    This program is for you if you want:

    • A stronger sense of presence

    • Emotional depth without overwhelm

    • Clearer boundaries, direction, and self-trust

    • A healthier relationship to your sexuality and body

    • Guidance, structure, and accountability

Men ready to feel alive in their body - Stop overthinking. Start sensing.
Men craving clarity - Calm your mind and meet yourself fully.
Men longing for real connection - Open your heart, deepen intimacy.
Men wanting depth in sexuality - Explore presence, pleasure, and energy.
Men stepping into their power - Embody strength, sensitivity, and authenticity.
Men ready to transform - Live fully, lead from your body, and create a life that feels real.

This work requires courage, honesty, and curiosity.

If you feel a resonance, that’s your invitation.

THIS IS FOR

If your body says yes, share your details at the bottom of the page. I’ll connect with you soon to explore the next steps.

Your soul doesn’t care what you do for a living, and when your life is over, neither will you. Your soul cares only about what you are being while you are doing whatever you are doing.

— Neale Donald Walsch

ABOUT ME

Hi I’m Sofie,

I support men in reconnecting with their body, their truth, and their capacity for intimacy.


Through a blend of bodywork and coaching, I create a space where men feel safe to soften, open, and grow into deeper strength and sensitivity.

Learn more about me

TESTIMONIALS

Your next chapter, told by others.

  • Sofie made me feel safe to explore some areas in my life that I normally would hesitate stepping into by myself. Her approach with the body, feelings and somatic experience was new and super revolutionary for me. I feel like a big breakthrough was made in just one session. I’m really grateful for her skills and space to allow me to move through certain internal blocks in a safe and comfortable way.

    Matt

  • I don’t think I’ve ever been this relaxed in my entire life. My nervous system finally got a chance to slow down and reset. Sofie guided me into my body in a way that felt natural, respectful, and incredibly calming. I walked out with more peace, clarity, and softness than I thought was possible in one session.

    Steven

  • Sofie is direct in a way that feels caring, not confronting. She listens, asks good questions, and helps you see what’s really going on. The combination of bodywork and coaching was a game changer. I feel more confident, more grounded, and more connected to myself. If you’re a man wanting to grow, this is the real deal.

    James

 FAQs

  • Each session begins with a short conversation to set an intention and clarify your boundaries. From there, we move into body-based work, using touch to bring the body into presence and regulation. Everything unfolds at your pace. Nothing is forced, you remain in full control at all times.

  • A session is a grounded process of awareness and transformation. We start from what’s real for you right now. Situations, emotions, or patterns that keep showing up in your life. From there, we go deeper, tracing what’s underneath: early experiences, emotional wounds, or family dynamics that shaped how you respond today.

    Through dialogue, guided inner work, and simple embodied exercises, we work safely with what’s held in the body and subconscious. It’s not about fixing or suppressing what you feel, but about alchemizing it. Transforming it into clarity, strength, and connection.

    The aim is to be profoundly connected to who you are, and to live from that grounded, expanded place.

  • Yes, many clients benefit from alternating both modalities. Coaching helps clarify mental and emotional patterns; bodywork allows those insights to land in the body. This is what my package ‘The Embodied Man’ is for.

  • Avoid alcohol, drugs, caffeine, and heavy or sugary foods before the session. Keep your system calm and give yourself time before and after to arrive gently and integrate. Don’t schedule anything intense afterwards; take a walk, journal, or rest. This helps your body to process and anchor what unfolds.

  • No. This work is not sexual, nor does it involve any form of erotic exchange. The focus is on connection, awareness, and embodied presence.

    I remain clothed at all times and am never to be touched in a sexual way. Any attempt to cross these boundaries will immediately end the session without refund. In cases of harassment, formal reports will be made.

  • Coaching sessions can take place in person (Amersfoort) or online via Zoom. Bodywork sessions are only available in person.

  • With your permission, coaching sessions may be audio-recorded for note-taking purposes only. This allows me to create a clear written summary of key insights and next steps, which you’ll receive afterward to support your process.

    Recordings are never shared and are securely deleted within two weeks. If you prefer not to be recorded, simply let me know. That’s completely fine.

  • Sessions are available in English and Dutch.

  • If you’re interested in working together, simply fill out the contact form. I’ll reach out to you personally to explore what you’re looking for and to schedule your first session.

    For Bodywork sessions and The Embodied Man, we always begin with a free 20-minute introductory call. This gives us space to connect, feel into the work, and see if it’s the right fit for you.

    A single coaching session can be booked directly without an introductory call if you already know you want to work together.

    Payment is required before the session begins.

  • Cancellations or rescheduling must be made at least 48 hours in advance.

    Cancellations within 48 hours will be charged in full, as the time is reserved exclusively for you.

  • One session can open a door, but true transformation takes time.

    While a single experience can bring clarity or a beautiful breakthrough, sustainable change unfolds through ongoing work.

    Most men choose to work with me over several months, allowing new patterns to integrate and become embodied. Growth is not a quick fix. It’s a journey we walk together, at the depth you’re ready for.

  • My current work focuses on men, as my expertise lies in male embodiment and relational development.

    However, I occasionally guide mixed workshops or couples upon request.


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